online across the uk and europe
Therapy that fits around your life, not the other way round.
Whether it’s sex, desire, communication or the stuff that’s been sitting between you and a partner for a while, you can talk it through from somewhere you already feel comfortable. Your sofa, your spare room, your car on a lunch break. No commute, no waiting room, no bumping into someone you know.
It’s queer-led, kink-aware and neurodivergent-affirming as standard, and open to individuals, couples and multi-partnered people across the UK and Europe. I’m fully insured to work with clients in both, so you’re in safe hands wherever you’re based.
THERAPY, WHEREVER YOU ARE
What is online sex and relationship therapy?
It’s the same specialist therapy you’d get in a room, just over a secure video call. We talk. That’s it. There’s nothing you’ll be asked to do on camera, and you set the pace for what we explore.
People come for all sorts of reasons: desire that’s gone quiet, pain or difficulty with sex, anxiety about performance, a relationship that feels stuck, or a partner you love but keep misunderstanding. Some come alone, some come as a couple, some come with more than one partner.
Research suggests video therapy works just as well as face-to-face for lots of people. For some, it actually feels easier, because talking about sex is a lot less daunting from your own space.
WHY PEOPLE CHOOSE ONLINE
Therapy that actually fits into a busy life
Life is full. Work, kids, caring, shifts, burnout. Finding a free evening, let alone getting across town for an hour, can feel impossible. Online sessions take a lot of that friction away.
Fits around your week.
No travel time means an hour of therapy is just an hour. Easy to slot in before work, on a lunch break, or once the kids are in bed.
Easier for couples to line up
Two diaries are hard enough. You can join from the same sofa, or from two different places if one of you is away or working late.
Comfort makes it easier to open up.
Talking about sex is vulnerable. Being somewhere familiar, with your own tea and your own blanket, can make it so much easier to say the thing out loud.
Private and discreet.
No waiting room, no being seen walking into a therapist's office. Just a secure link and a closed door.
Accessible for more bodies and brains.
If travel is hard because of chronic illness, pain, disability, anxiety or sensory overwhelm, you don't have to push through that just to get support. Need to walk around for a bit? That's fine too.
A specialist, wherever you live
Psychosexual therapists aren't on every high street. Online means you can work with someone queer-led, kink-aware and neurodivergent-affirming, even if there's no one like that near you.
WAYS WE CAN WORK TOGETHER
Online sex, couples & relationship therapy
Six ways people across the UK work with me online. Simply click a box below to learn more.
Online sex therapy
Talking therapy for desire, arousal, pain, erections, orgasm and sexual anxiety. For individuals and couples, over video, at your own pace.
Online couples therapy
For partners who feel stuck in the same arguments, drifting apart, or rebuilding trust. We're not taught how to communicate, so how would we know? This is where you get to learn together.
Online relationship therapy
Support for any relationship structure: monogamous, open, polyamorous, long distance, or somewhere in between. You can come on your own to work on how you show up in relationships, too.
Online neurodivergent sex therapy
Sex therapy built around how autistic, ADHD and otherwise neurodivergent minds and bodies actually work. Online can be a gentler option if travel or new spaces are draining.
Online neurodivergent couples therapy
For couples and multi-partnered people where sensory needs, communication styles and intimacy all need a seat at the table.
Online LGBTQ+ sex & relationship therapy
Queer-led, trans+ affirming therapy where you don't have to explain or justify who you are or who you love before we get started.
Also offering online support for men leaving red pill and manosphere spaces, and one-off directive sessions for practical guidance. See pricing for details.
WHAT WE CAN WORK THROUGH
What people bring to online sessions
WHAT TO EXPECT
How online sessions work
- Book a free 15 min consultation. A low pressure chat to ask questions and get a feel for whether we’re a good fit. No commitment.
- Get your secure link. Once you’ve booked, you’ll get a private video link by email. No app to download, it opens in your browser.
- Find a quiet, private spot. Somewhere you won’t be overheard and have complete privacy. Headphones and a laptop are preferred.
- We talk, at your pace. Sessions are 50 minutes. You choose what we explore and how fast. Nothing is off the table, and nothing is forced.
Nervous about saying it out loud? That’s completely normal. Most people feel awkward in the first session, and that’s okay. You don’t need the right words, we’ll find them together.
PRICING
Same price as in person, without the commute
Solo sessions £65 · Couples sessions £85 · Low cost spaces available
Every journey starts with a free 15 min consultation, a low pressure way to ask questions and see if we’re a good fit.
Questions people ask about online sex and relationship therapy
Does online sex therapy actually work?
Yes. Sex therapy is a talking therapy, so it translates really well to video. Lots of people find it easier to open up from home, and studies on online therapy show results comparable to face-to-face for many people.
Can we do online couples therapy from different places?
Ideally it works best if you are in the same room but you can sit side by side on one screen, or join from separate locations if you’re working away, live apart, or are in a long distance relationship.
Will I have to do anything on camera?
Never. Sessions are just conversation. There’s no nudity, no physical exam and nothing you’ll be asked to show. You can even turn your camera off if that feels better for a moment.
Is it private and secure?
Sessions run on a secure, encrypted video platform, and notes are stored on UK-hosted systems in line with GDPR. The practice is registered with the ICO.
What if I don't have a private space at home?
It’s more common than you’d think. People join from a parked car, a booked private room at work, or a friend’s place.
Do you see people outside Brighton, or outside the UK?
Yes. Online sessions are open to anyone in the UK and Europe, and I’m fully insured to work with clients in both. Sessions are in English. If you’re local and would rather meet face to face, I also see people in person in Brighton & Hove.