Based in Brighton
Specialist therapy, rooted in Brighton
Brighton has one of the UK’s most visible queer, kink and sex-positive communities, and this practice is built around that from the ground up.
It’s queer-led, kink-aware and neurodivergent-affirming as standard. Sessions run in person in Hove, Central Brighton or online, so it’s easy to fit around work, study or a commute either side of the city.
Ways we can work together
Brighton psychosexual & relationship therapy
Six ways people in and around Brighton work with me, in person or online. Simply click a box below to learn more.
Also offering one-off directive sessions for practical guidance. See pricing for details.
Brighton Psychosexual Therapy
Talking therapy for desire, pain, function and sexual anxiety, for individuals and couples, in Brighton or online.
Brighton Relationship Therapy
Support for communication, trust, conflict and connection, for any relationship structure, not just marriage.
Brighton Neurodivergent Sex Therapy
Sex therapy built around how autistic, ADHD and otherwise neurodivergent minds and bodies actually work, rather than against them.
Brighton Neurodivergent Couples Therapy
Neurodivergent-affirming work for couples and multi-partnered people, where sex, communication and sensory needs all need a seat at the table.
What we can work through
The patterns that bring couples in
- Communication style clashes: direct vs. indirect, literal vs. inferred
- Differing intimacy and sensory needs between partners
- The double empathy problem - why misunderstandings aren't about one partner "not trying"
- Emotional disconnection and repair after conflict
- Rejection sensitivity in relationship conflict
- Building a shared language for needs neither of you was taught to name
Worth understanding
The double empathy problem, briefly
You might have heard neurodivergent people described as having “poor social skills” — the double empathy problem reframes that: misunderstanding often runs both ways between different neurotypes, not one-directionally from a neurodivergent partner. In session, that reframe alone often changes how a couple talks about their conflict.
Getting started
Sessions, in person or online
Sessions run online across the UK, or in person in Brighton, whichever suits you better. Most people start with a free initial consultation, a low pressure way to ask questions and get a feel for whether we’re a good fit before committing to ongoing therapy.
Questions people ask about sex therapy in Brighton
Do you see clients in Brighton in person, or only online?
Is there a neurodivergent-affirming sex therapist in Brighton?
What's the difference between couples therapy and psychosexual therapy?
Do I need to live in Brighton to work with you?
Is the practice LGBTQ+ and kink-friendly?
Not quite ready for Sex & Relationship Therapy?
I have created an in-depth online course that you can complete in your own time on neurodivergence and intimacy. Easy to follow and recorded like a podcast, so you don't have to read lots.





