Therapy for the messy, intimate bits nobody prepares you for.

Shame-free, inclusive sex and relationship therapy with Evie Plumb. In person in Brighton & Hove, or online anywhere in the UK.

Free 15 min consultation

ONLINE VIDEO SESSIONS

SOME LOW-INCOME SLOTS AVAILABLE

Welcome to my practice

Are you tired of focusing on the endless 'shoulds' when it comes to sex and relationships?

Whether you're struggling with something on your own or with a partner/partners, my approach is simple: we focus on exploring what you actually want and need, not what you've been told you should want. No scripts, no judgement, no one-size-fits-all answers.

I GIVE PEOPLE THE TOOLS THEY NEED TO:

Navigate relationships in all their forms, from communication to intimacy to conflict

Navigate relationships in all their forms, from communication to intimacy to conflict

Understand what's happening in their body and get to the bottom of sexual function problems

Understand what's happening in their body and get to the bottom of sexual function problems

Explore desire, identity and pleasure without shame or a script to follow

Explore desire, identity and pleasure without shame or a script to follow

Work through the emotional, physical and psychological bits of sex that nobody talks about honestly

Work through the emotional, physical and psychological bits of sex that nobody talks about honestly

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Evie Plumb (she/her)

Meet your therapist

Hey! I'm Evie (she/her), a neurodivergent psychosexual & relationship therapist based in Brighton, UK. I am also the founder of Cliterally The Best – an adult sex education platform, and I’ve given talks to the NHS.

I’m passionate about creating spaces where the messy, complicated bits of sex, gender and relationships can actually be talked about honestly. My practice is inclusive of all identities, backgrounds and experiences.

Sex therapy and relationship therapy isn’t about becoming more sexual or more adventurous (unless that’s what you’re looking for). It’s about understanding yourself, your desires, and your relationships, whatever that looks like for you.

There’s no benchmark to meet. Whether you’re navigating low desire, sexual identity, intimacy issues, asexuality, or relationship dynamics as an individual or with a partner, this is a shame-free space to explore on your own terms.

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Problems we can navigate together...

Psychosexual and relationship problems I can help you work through, at your own pace and in a safe, judgement-free space.

Sex and sexual function

Sex and sexual function

- Desire (libido) issues
- Pain during sex (vaginismus, dyspareunia)
- Unreliable erections
- Delayed ejaculation
- Delayed or absent orgasm
- Compulsive sexual behaviour ('sex addiction')
- Porn use concerns
- Sexual anxiety and performance anxiety
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Identity and self

Identity and self

- Sexual identity and orientation
- Gender identity and gender dysphoria
- Body image and its relationship to sex
- Shame, guilt and negative beliefs about sex
- Neurodivergence and how it shows up in relationships and intimacy
- Kink, BDSM and sexual interests
- Coming out at any age
- Masculine identity & ideologies
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Relationships and intimacy

Relationships and intimacy

- Communication issues
- Emotional disconnection
- Infidelity and trust
- Relationship transitions and breakups
- Consensual non-monogamy and polyamory
- Intimacy and closeness (or the lack of it)
- Conflict
- Attachment patterns and dating
- Desire (libido) discrepancy between partners
- How Neurodivergence plays a part in relatinoships
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Got a question?

Frequently Asked Questions

You can read my pricing details here. Low-income and student slots are available at a reduced rate, and your first consultation is free so we can check we’re a good fit.

NHS psychosexual services exist but waiting lists can be long and availability varies by area. This practice is private, with low-income slots built in — for other free options, see  low-cost support.

No. You can get in touch directly, no GP referral needed. Join the waitlist to arrange your free initial consultation.

 

Both are available. Infact I work with more individuals than couples at the moment.

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Not quite ready for Sex & Relationship Therapy?

I have created an in-depth online course that you can complete in your own time on neurodivergence and intimacy. Easy to follow and recorded like a podcast, so you don't have to read lots.

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Reading on sex, identity & relationships

Shame-free reading on sex, relationships and neurodivergence from a Brighton psychosexual therapist, for anyone whether or not you're in therapy yet.

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